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Why Men Are Online Dating Failures

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23 Responses to “Why Men Are Online Dating Failures”

  1. pintobeans77 on August 31st, 2010 at 1:00 pm

    @00s00m This guy never stated that women weren’t shallow. And if you ask me, I think that most women could afford to be a little more selfish so they don’t end up settling for losers.

  2. northernsplash on August 31st, 2010 at 1:53 pm

    wow…this makes a lot of sense, why didn’t this ever occur to me.

  3. TruthFan on August 31st, 2010 at 2:08 pm

    @pintobeans77 you said, “This guy never stated that women weren’t shallow. And if you ask me, I think that most women could afford to be a little more selfish so they don’t end up settling for losers.”

    I completely agree.

  4. omfggoogle on August 31st, 2010 at 3:49 pm

    @TruthFan His advise was not sound. What I said was what the best solution would be . He gave no constructive advise. He went out of his way to put other men down. NOT COOL BRO!!! Listen to his opening remarks. This guy thinks most men are bad and when there playing the dating game they are such losers they include the ugly or boring ones to as back ups. It makes women think negative about guys and in turn makes the situation bad for all involved.

  5. Lariiperson on August 31st, 2010 at 4:18 pm

    This guy gives really good advice :)

  6. MaicoMoon on August 31st, 2010 at 4:18 pm

    Yea, we all know you read ladder theory, big deal.

  7. omfggoogle on August 31st, 2010 at 4:27 pm

    His answer should have been yes make the first move or atleast hint towards intrest in being taken on a date. There is nothing wrong with women making the first move if the emails are dragging on too long. Simple answer to an easy question. Done!!

  8. TruthFan on August 31st, 2010 at 4:50 pm

    I totally agree with this. Women need to date like men. Keep options open and online date other men.

  9. TruthFan on August 31st, 2010 at 4:57 pm

    @omfggoogle As a woman I find what he says true and helpful. Not that I didn’t know it already. His advice was sound. In fact I had the same situation. I just decided to emotionally pull myself away from the guy, then I find this video and it comfirms what I’ve been feeling.

  10. CrynOut on August 31st, 2010 at 5:08 pm

    Damn, this is sooo true, it’s ridiculous!

  11. pintobeans77 on August 31st, 2010 at 5:30 pm

    LOL Great answer. Real and honest :) It is to be expected that this is how most men think.

  12. Bubbles1779 on August 31st, 2010 at 5:33 pm

    it really could be anything, it’s net.

  13. Lariiperson on August 31st, 2010 at 5:53 pm

    This guy gives really good advice :)

  14. cjr3559 on August 31st, 2010 at 7:12 pm

    Solid advice. However, online dating is an incredible waste of time. Yes, there are success stories, but they are such a small fraction of the total that the amount of time invested is not worth the outcome.

  15. F10ert on August 31st, 2010 at 7:21 pm

    I agree in part with this guy but i believe the reason he hasn’t asked her out is because a guy on the internet is prejudged to be slightly creepy and this guy knows this fact so in ordered to show he’s not a creep he is taking longer to get to know the person first as not to scare her away

  16. MichyGW on August 31st, 2010 at 7:33 pm

    I don’tthink dating online is a smart thing to do. It rarely works out and most men are actually looking for sex and women too.

  17. omfggoogle on August 31st, 2010 at 7:48 pm

    This guy is an idiot! He does nothing constructive in this video . He puts men in a bad light and makes women think that men who date online are players or have a player mentality. Most guys are not like what he says and are stand up guys and dont just connect with women based on looks alone. As for him giving advise. I think his time would be better spent getting advise on male grooming.

  18. stategrad350 on August 31st, 2010 at 9:06 pm

    He’s actually spot on with this advice. For guys online dating is a skill that needs to be practiced to be any good at it… and it’s a separate skill from dating in real life.

    Some of my friends are really great at getting women to respond to them online NP, but soon as it comes to approaching a girl in real life… not so much. Also know people with amazing game in real life, but can’t figure out how to send an email online containing anything other than phrase “OMG your smokin hotz!”

  19. xoVioleteyezxo on August 31st, 2010 at 11:07 pm

    SUCH GOOD ADVICE!

  20. CraftLulz on August 31st, 2010 at 11:46 pm

    ugh this guy….

  21. x8y7 on August 31st, 2010 at 11:46 pm

    what ever happened to romance?

  22. omfggoogle on August 31st, 2010 at 11:51 pm

    @TruthFan Maybe not all involved. I could be great for dating coaches. They can be there to give advise and be like oh you need some help lets book a private session and i can teach you how to be normal kaaaaching.

  23. princesskemo on August 31st, 2010 at 11:59 pm

    men are only dating nubs if your a nub and find online nubs on there haha! XD so to answer your question …why dont you actually study a little more about the computer, upgrade from lame EMAILS back and forth and get instant messenger live plus so you can not only talk back and forth but also webcam and voice chat :D ….nub

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